10 STUFFS EVERY LADY SHOULD KNOW BEFORE GOING ON A DATE

Many ladies are being booked already for a date on weekend, these are a Ten piece of what your Pastor never told you and you can't find it in any book, so mind you while

1.   HE IS STILL ON A CHASE FOR YOU add a mixture of mystery and creativity, plus intellect to taste, an ounce of godly appearance will be lovely, Remember nothing is real, only perception so employ a little fiction and a. little reality that will entail you
2. CREATE SUSPENSE AND INTRIGUE. 

Define your Character as bold and strong, independent and don't appear needy, insecure rather be focused, appear learned, keep the conversation interesting. Smile and acknowledge his compliments, dictate his subtlety and address idol talks but leave when he gets nasty on you. Listen with your head lifted up and stir him in the face to commensurate attention. Then expect to

ATTEMPT HIS FIRST TEST. 

 He has decoded your uniqueness, watch him speeden the chase and that will trigger disparity in him: men know good things when they see it; but worry about its scarcity, so they need to hasten before any other guy grabs it. That's how he feels but

 4) DON'T MAKE IT EASY FOR HIM THOUGH. He might be feeling you are the best thing ever, you will sense the burning fire to own you, let him invest more time, more words,more energy and attention. Making it cheap for him will quench his flaming fire. He will be forced to please you and never to lose you. He won't 

 5) BE IN TOTAL CONTROL OF HIMSELF, 

You are now in control; monitor all the details; forgive his nasty mistakes in babbling in other to please you: it will make up the joke when he finally marries you. use this opportunity to mirror him, to study him: be critical but mix it with humor, give him room to express himself freely but 

 6). GET YOUR SCORE CARDS READY, 

So score him not by the size of his pocket but by the content of his character, not by the type of car he rides, but by the kind of Spirit that rides him: Angels or demons. Score him not based on his appearance but by the vision he is carrying. Be firm because your happiness is on the line. Pay attention but be 

 7). THE NUT HE WANTS TO CRACK 

Mystery entails you smile often, you don't give a damn when he stirs at the big booty waiter, he is only substrating his scores; appear thoughtful, cheerful, let your beauty radiate from the inside. Don't give pity a chance, don't forget to compliment him when he makes a great point and encourage him when the need arises. Mind you, you are only 

 8) COMPETING WITH YOURSELF 

Don't give a damn what other ladies does to win a man's focus and attention in a bar, restaurants, Church, fast food on a first or even a second date. You are the best, pretty, lovely, bold and a model to be copied and not otherwise. To be the kind of women who will wield much power on a man really needs much effort, you need to 

 9) INVEST IN YOURSELF FIRST 

You need to read voraciously to know but be mindful of books telling you to give him the sex after three months. Learn beyond city people, fashion and trends know little about politics, sports, jokes economics, technology, philosophy, Christianity. No man wants to marry a well packaged dummy. You need your IQ working. You need to know God because He is the moral barometer that keeps your values in check; nothing good comes easy, so 

 10)DON'T TAKE THE SHORT CUT 

Most ladies go for charms, pixie dust and magic to cast spells on men in order to win them over; they are only taking the short cut; that one too comes with a greater price of infinite regrets.