CAUSES AND SOLUTIONS TO FEAR OF LOVE

It is so pathetic what fear does to us without we knowing it; we allow it play a role in all our decision making which tear down our respective relationships and leave your spouse with no reason for the fall-out and determines who you date: good or bad. Most ladies left guys with no reasons; and fear to tell them the rational behind their leaving. Fear displays its awkwardness in all aspect of our life as we deem it fit Most people's problem is not who to love or how to love but people are often afraid of love itself. Fear of love could be caused ranging from: 1)Fear of an ugly experience repeating itself; 2)Some background rooted Reasons. » Fear of an ugly experience repeating itself do give a hidden belief that love is dangerous. That if you fully dive into love for anyone, it will engulf you, swallow you whole that there'll be no "you" left and at the long run when you have finally surrendered your love, you will be disregarded and later jilted by the same person that had loved you. It make you see love as a trap waiting to break your heart. Background Rooted Cases: There are generations of women in some families, who do sabotage happiness and push love away and encourage the younger gals down the line to do thesame. They get the lucky ones among them who have finally found their soul mate to believe that the relationship cannot possibly last. Then they must create trouble at base camp. They must cheat to feel justified, thinking its the right thing to do. All these drives is wheeled subconsciously, and is in constant struggle with your Christian beliefs and these fears will always take prominence reflecting in your behavior because you tend to feed your fear more than you feed your faith; your clueless spouse would be having issues with you without knowing the root causes. Since you are what you think, then, you have the choice to determine "who you want to be" in the middle of your inward struggle between faith and fear in your mind. Between denying the ugly scene happening inside of you, and set your relationship up for a fall or tell yourself the truth and make way for love. ACTION POINT »Tell yourself the truth. »Engage in some proper interpersonal relationships with yourself. »Begin to place your beliefs to a doubt to choose the helpful ones. » Affirm the best and right things to yourself; faith comes by hearing, hearing the word of God. »Let your spouse know you had a life before he met you and learn if he can fit into it and help improve your life? Don't expect him to know, he is not in your head. »Don't just keep filling your minds with reasons for doing the wrong things hence feeding your fears against your faith. Rather tell yourself the truth and only the truth can set you free. Please leave a comment!