CODE XX: FOR CODED FAMILY MEN

1). ADD THOUGHTFULLNESS TO PRESENTS: Society might tag value in quality and expensive things but to your wife, the more thought you add into a present, the more valuable it becomes. Don't always forget to think outside the box, the present might be your undivided attention, a present of a man free of bad habits. And minding the kids are well taken care of. 2). LISTEN: when you listen to what your wife says, she feels valued. she is reassured that her thoughts and feelings are important to you. The more you listen, the more she will trust, feel secured and confide more in you. 3). SMILE: when she wants to talk, welcome her with a smile so she won't feel that she is inconveniencing you. A smiling husband is sure to have a happy home. 4). BE A GOOD DETECTIVE: like any good detective, if you backtrack and follow the clues you will get to the bottom of what is really making her angry. when your wife grows silent, stopped smiling; check her-------its time to backtrack. 5). THANK HER thank your wife when she says something nice about you in public, and don't fail to tell her how beautiful that makes you feel. 6). SHE IS A MULTI-TASKER don't worry that you have lost her attention, when your woman gets into multi-task mode like our smart-phone. When she answers the calls, cook the meal and hanging Junior on her her hip. Please instead of get into a quarrel for this rather praise for such a wonderful skilland for her incredible ability to maximizing her precious time. 7). CHERISH THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU BOTH one of you is practical, and the other is more free-spirited, and that keeps fun in your life and at the same time gives you control and order. one of you likes to clown around, and one of you likes to laugh. one of you likes to cry, and the other likes to comfort. one of you wants to touch, and the other loves to be touched. and no matter the huge difference, your hearts were designed by God to beat as one. cherish it! 8). THANK GOD FOR THE BIG DIFFERENCE IN YOU BOTH those differences keep you thinking different and this makes life fun and exciting. you both will never think exactly alike, you will always see the world through different eyes. it is fine as long as you both are looking up to God for directions. 9). DON'T CRITICIZE HER IN PUBLIC it will be too bad of you to criticize her jokingly or meanly in front of your friends, family or colleague. if you are not praising her then i think you should pin your mouth and swallow the negative things about her. 10). DO NOT COMPARE HER WITH OTHER LADY she is your one and only and in no account would you compare her with your sister, friend, colleague or even your mom, she is unique and unique she will forever be.