LOVE AND COMFORT PREFERENCE IN RELATIONSHIPS

Love and comfort are two important stuffs in a relationship, for the ladies, they watch out for these two things before venturing into any relationship. When we talk of comfort, we talk of being in a relationship with a man in possession of a beautiful apartment, a nice car, a good paying job and a good sum in the bank. And love comprises a man whose heart is a fountain that flows kindness, care, cheerfulness, sincerity in compliment and goodwill. Life is in a balance and not all men with love can give you comfort; which means some may have the comfort but lacks the ability to issue out the love.

Notwithstanding few can afford the both intact. Though some guys can guarantee you love and also had ready their jet pack and have strapped it to their back about to take off to the stars to grab that dream, that vision, that comfort you needed and most of them are expecting you to believe in them and also support them to get the comfort you needed.

 There are some men too who have this whole pie-in-the-sky dream, but are still sitting down stirring at the stars. Most times paramount in most women's mind is comfort and they expect love latter which never comes. It should be vice-versa, search for the men who have the ability to love and is ever ready to get the comfort and shun the others who aren't got a vision, a dream, a laid down plan to get you that comfort; but if you still see men with both then thank your stars. Though you may have seen or known a lady who had firstly seeked love and not comfort but later when the guy found riches he left her for another lady who he think matches his present status. My advice is: don't just look for the love and forget to look for the signs. Signs like: if he is into Christ and ready to walk with God or not; is he yet to discover himself and is still looking for a lady to keep him company for the mean time; is he ready for a relationship or is he still womanizing around. These are signs you watch out for and they are always glaring to you but your inner needs and wants and desperation to fall in love blinds you from these signs.