10 STUFFS EVERY LADY SHOULD KNOW BEFORE GOING ON A DATE

Many ladies are being booked already for a date on weekend, these are a Ten piece of what your Pastor never told you and you can't find it in any book, so mind you while

1.   HE IS STILL ON A CHASE FOR YOU add a mixture of mystery and creativity, plus intellect to taste, an ounce of godly appearance will be lovely, Remember nothing is real, only perception so employ a little fiction and a. little reality that will entail you
2. CREATE SUSPENSE AND INTRIGUE. 

Define your Character as bold and strong, independent and don't appear needy, insecure rather be focused, appear learned, keep the conversation interesting. Smile and acknowledge his compliments, dictate his subtlety and address idol talks but leave when he gets nasty on you. Listen with your head lifted up and stir him in the face to commensurate attention. Then expect to

ATTEMPT HIS FIRST TEST. 

 He has decoded your uniqueness, watch him speeden the chase and that will trigger disparity in him: men know good things when they see it; but worry about its scarcity, so they need to hasten before any other guy grabs it. That's how he feels but

 4) DON'T MAKE IT EASY FOR HIM THOUGH. He might be feeling you are the best thing ever, you will sense the burning fire to own you, let him invest more time, more words,more energy and attention. Making it cheap for him will quench his flaming fire. He will be forced to please you and never to lose you. He won't 

 5) BE IN TOTAL CONTROL OF HIMSELF, 

You are now in control; monitor all the details; forgive his nasty mistakes in babbling in other to please you: it will make up the joke when he finally marries you. use this opportunity to mirror him, to study him: be critical but mix it with humor, give him room to express himself freely but 

 6). GET YOUR SCORE CARDS READY, 

So score him not by the size of his pocket but by the content of his character, not by the type of car he rides, but by the kind of Spirit that rides him: Angels or demons. Score him not based on his appearance but by the vision he is carrying. Be firm because your happiness is on the line. Pay attention but be 

 7). THE NUT HE WANTS TO CRACK 

Mystery entails you smile often, you don't give a damn when he stirs at the big booty waiter, he is only substrating his scores; appear thoughtful, cheerful, let your beauty radiate from the inside. Don't give pity a chance, don't forget to compliment him when he makes a great point and encourage him when the need arises. Mind you, you are only 

 8) COMPETING WITH YOURSELF 

Don't give a damn what other ladies does to win a man's focus and attention in a bar, restaurants, Church, fast food on a first or even a second date. You are the best, pretty, lovely, bold and a model to be copied and not otherwise. To be the kind of women who will wield much power on a man really needs much effort, you need to 

 9) INVEST IN YOURSELF FIRST 

You need to read voraciously to know but be mindful of books telling you to give him the sex after three months. Learn beyond city people, fashion and trends know little about politics, sports, jokes economics, technology, philosophy, Christianity. No man wants to marry a well packaged dummy. You need your IQ working. You need to know God because He is the moral barometer that keeps your values in check; nothing good comes easy, so 

 10)DON'T TAKE THE SHORT CUT 

Most ladies go for charms, pixie dust and magic to cast spells on men in order to win them over; they are only taking the short cut; that one too comes with a greater price of infinite regrets.

ECONOMICS OF WOMEN

I love Economics because it's applicability to all aspects of life is mindblowing. Many would agree with me that demand and supply in a capitalist State is influenced by price. Earth plain will always be liberal with its universal laws applicable to dick, Tom and Harry and one of those laws is higher the price the lower the quantity demanded; the lower the price the higher the quantity demanded is just as potent as the law of thermodynamic, law of gravity and law of motion. When the commodity is a woman; her beauty, appearance, self-discovery, personal development, intellect and *moral standards determines her value in the social market; she gets less toasters according the highs in these above listed because cheap things appeal more to the masses and when the masses can't afford her, they descend lower to what they can rather afford. Her limited toasters at that point in time might not be in her list of preference but she will always have factors influencing her worth in the social market place: And these Factors influencing her price in the social market is as follows:

1) INNER NEEDS 

2) ENVIRONMENTAL INFLUENCE

 The inner needs and environmental influence her circularly causal, meaning they influence themselves. Inner needs influence environmental influence and environmental influence influences inner needs and vice versa.

 ~ ~ INNER NEEDS~~

 Her inner needs are also separated into two which are:

 A) Her desperation for companionship;

 B) Desperate chase against Time.

 A) Companionship: At a given time human needs stirs the women up and push them out of their comforts to get that which they need and secure survival for themselves. Eg. The early man needed food, water and shelter.. And these needs are what fuels his thinking to start looking for it. Many would say I've drifted from discussing woman to men discussion but one thing leads to another. Now woman's desperate need for companionship starts at a point in her life time; these needs creates for her thoughts of what to do to attract men to herself, the intensity of these needs determines how she will appear in the social market with little or no thought who she is attracting.

 B) Time: women are seasonal, just like "Tomato Jos" appeared fresh and clean the first time, after three days it won't look as attractive as before. Woman have three decades to shine and out shine but after that period as long as other things remains equal eg. Reproduction; younger competitors will flood our clubs, churches, school and streets constituting the four chambers of our social market. The more her biological time ticks the more she would want to loosens those code of conducts that made her who she truly is. 

  

    ~~~ENVIRONMENTAL INFLUENCE~~~ 

 And Two Outer influence namely:

 A) Societal norms and expectations 

B) Peer groups Societal norms and expectations: 

Let me firstly discuss the norm and expetation.

 As our society advances worn out norms and expectations are replaced with new ones. One of those norms is that every girl at the age of 12 upwards is expected to have a boyfriend and any girl at the age range of 18 upwards is expect to be having sex and having some good fun; any one seen without these traits are alienated and seen to be coming from the Moon. Her reasons are irrelevant. These creates sense of social abandonment which is dreaded by many; and only few can weather the storms it throws at the soul. That's right! Ladies from the age of 25 are expected to be bringing in suitors irrespective anything. Most woman cannot curtail the needs of no calls, no admirers, no suitors while pursuing their passion in life(most times a dream, God or the combination of the two). These factor smoke her out of her closet. 

 Peer Groups: this one constitute your cousins, friends, church members, group members, room mates, yard gal, street friends, course mates, choir group members whose impacts are greatly seen all over you. They install their deadly thought pattern into you and you take them without properly scrutinizing it. Like scratched CD plate when their dancing motion images will be displaying in the television of your reality no one will be able to figure out the content you're being made up of. 

 Finally, most ladies are rich without knowing it, they qualify riches to be their appearance, friends and the kind of guy dating them but the universe sees things differently. That is why Nazereth became the only city where the Savior of the world could be born. Because they were morally rich. To me high moral standard is a woman's greatest wealth. In economics there are luxuries and cheap commodities eg Lamborghini as compared to Camry, I-phone 6 as compared to Techno Phantom. Now luxuries are meant for wealthy few, while cheap things are meant for the masses, no wonder cheap gals like Tecno are the majority in our society today as they dress skimpy walking the streets in their various classes attracting the majority morally wretched but maybe financial rich men.

•  My advice is: as you are developing yourself, that special guy is also busy chasing his passion and when he needs a companion, you'll be the woman he will attract. Now, a lamborghini dealer won't because a Camry dealer sold 100 Camry at $10000 each everyday, for him to reduce his Lamborghini worth $250,000 to $10000 to measure up sales. That is arrant stupidity, but most ladies are that stupid too. Don't reduce your worth(moral standards) no matter the condition and time and one day that man who knows your true worth will grab you off the social market.