10 RULES FOR EFFECTIVE STUDENTS

A pal of mine shared this to me so I decided to share it to you as well, because of my generosity. He said these are the strategies he implied that made him stood out in academics, handed him connection and fame even when he haven't started his major programme in school. It goes thus:

1. Nothing is free in life, its either you are paying one thing or the other, in school, when Your parents pay the school fees, you have to pay attention to enable you reap the value of the fees they paid.

2. Don't be stereotyped but mirror your lectures. Do what the lecturers tell you to do and don't do what they said you shouldn't do and they - - lecturers--will love you and fight for you in critical times. When you are talking to Profs, talk, pose and act like one. Same to lecturers and other great men you would  meet. He said if you don't, they will also rate me and see me as a kid. So don't rush while talking, don't shout, speak slowly and in a low tone to command attention and simply it works.

3 You don't have to accept the roles and rules your parents gave you from home, it will make you behave like any other students because their parents also gave them similar template. Carve your own part, keep right but don't do what other students are doing. If you have questions, be bold and ask your lecturers. also answer questions too.

4. The students will become jealous and many will dislike you but the lecturers will love you more. But be humble, proud but simple, and soon enough, those who despise you will be at peace with you.

5. Set a standard and follow it up. And everyone will respect you and pave way for you.

6. The most important as he said is that you should never reveal your identity; that is your family history. Put family issues aside and don't mention it to anyone. Otherwise people will measure you and rate you. Which will then limit your achievement.

7. He also said that the best and worst result is being made in the first year. You should always be conscious of that.

8. Information drive our time. Make friends from the highest grade, class and colleague, ask after each lecturers techniques of marking, psychology and association. Get them to give you basic information and past questions and It will get you ahead. Information is power, its no longer knowledge.

9. Help your colleagues, be that person they run to and look up to, be friendly,  put up a nice demeanor and be that person they are calling for in information, for help....tutor them for that is how you become a leader.

10. Never tell anyone your strategy, it will become conventional and useless. And you will became useless to them as well.

Michael is the author of a best selling book title "Unlock Your Hidden Powers: selling on Amazon.

THE SCIENCE OF FALLING IN LOVE STILL UNKNOWN TO MANY LADIES

1. When I hear ladies say no man is worth trusting, i won't blame them either, maybe they have not COME ACROSS good,nice and caring dude like me. Lol. Just joking!!! As a behaviourist, it took constant research to discover this science outlined below.

2. The point is, some men can be trusted but you can set yourself up for the wrong ones then the unscrupulous ones will persuade you to surrender your trust without your knowledge. There's a science men will use to make you surrender your heart to them, an art of falling in love is no longer a matter of magic but of psychology. With women, its all about emotions and connection.

3. We know that what  the ladies of our generation lack in their lives is not more reality but illusion, fantasy and drama. To some he is expected to be romantic, wealthy, sweet, spoilt and a good man wrapped up in one. To some a strong, cocky god fearing laity.

4. Men on perceiving this, we not fail to create a romantic figure out of a novel to suit your fantasy. Then another Romeo is just being born.  By seeming to be what you lack, they will fit your ideal.

5.We are aware that  low self-esteem repels, confidence and self-sufficiency attracts, so we approach with confidence, then connect with a nice demeanor, a shared experiences and history. With a friendly outlook we set you off balance to diffuse aggression  then start discussing emotional cramps, that will disarm you.

6. Dont forget, words will always retain their power, with some of it, you can be opened like a book, and your attitude toward yourself is discharge unconsciously and is being read by him in a subtle way. But in this case we will examine the effect of our words with what Sociologist call Gauchai's Reaction.

7. In that case, we will watch out if you are in sync by checking if you will unconsciously start mimicking our gestures, reciprocating our head nod and our hand gestures. If you do, then you are in love.
8. Then we step on to tell you how you've changed us and changed the way we see the world before a talisman of a  gift to show that you have always been on our mind. You believed.

NOTE

9. People will often reveal there intents in subtle ways: one is through their gestures, then  another is through a look into their eye to question their words, if the tone of their voice changes while you guess at them, he is lying. There are exceptions too.

10. The key to following the path of the Ideal Lover is the ability to observe. Ignore your targets' words and conscious behavior; focus on the tone of their voice, a blush here, a look there—those signs that betray what their words won't say. Often the ideal is expressed in contradiction.

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IMAGE CHECKING AND INNER SOUL OF A WOMAN

YOUR INNER SELF AND ITS SEARCH FOR LOVE

1. Your spirit holds a mirror up to others to see what your inside looks like. This mirror is the self image or avatar that people perceive of you through your behaviour and speeches.

2. Your values, your tastes, even your flaws flows out from your self image and reflect out of your unconscious behavior and speech, and are perceived by people as either courageous, charismatic and smart; or fearful, vulnerable, timid, desperate and weak.

3. We are most times unaware of how our self image looks like whether healthy or sick. When healthy it help us maneuver manipulations, that is when they are properly feed with good values. But work against us when sick, tired and worn, any man can trick you and break your heart.

4. Most times it is used against us depending on what we feed our self image with. We may feed it fat with junks of negative values, false beliefs and influences. A lady who thinks having sex with all the men will revenge a heartbreak is a victim. A lady who thinks all guys are the same is also.

5. Your self image attracts people your way if it is healthy and presentable and also chases people out if worn out.  Because even in real life no one likes a timid and unkempt child.

6. When we fall in love, it is often with someone who seems to fill a gap we feel within. The process is usually unconscious and depends on luck: we wait for the right person to cross our path, and when we fall for them we hope they return our love.

7. But the dread seducer looks beyond the face to see your self image and having perceived its desperate wants and needs, weakness and vulnerability will not leave such things to chance, not even your beauty can save you. They will plunder and manipulate you based on their perceptions of you and make head way for heartbreak.

8. You feed your self image with selflove, thorough discipline and study to be perceived brave and awesome; for poised figures do have lifelong affairs with their own image to appear confident and influential; so

9. Let your yearning be of self development, feed your inner hunger with good values based on truth in the Bible not another lustful relationship. No one ever sees what is behind the mirror. They only notice Your change in character and attitude.

10. Also develop your Spiritual Intelligence. This is the most superior of all intelligence. In getting information from the beyond, it is even more effective than NASA. It plays a role of an inner satellite to draw information from Infinite Intelligence and even translate the thought of men to you in no time avoiding heartbreak. Jesus is the answer.

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THE SEVEN NEWEST LOVE ANTICS EVERY YOUNG LADY SHOULD KNOW

today's world falling in love is a matter of psychology than it is magical, while venturing in the course for love, the ideal path a Lover will take is the route that is not clearly seen, she aim to know his intentions firsthand, caring less of his  words and conscious behavior because it could be deceptive. Remember history books are written by victors not heroines who die in battle field. This is the way to go:

*SHARPEN YOUR OBSERVATION ABILITIES
You must be of Keen observation before you become his next victim, love is a game of power, don't get loose by a witty approach or a friendly outlook, make him your target. Before men ignite love  in your heart, ignore your target's sugarcoated words but rather focus on their tone of voice, a blush here, a look there; root for those signs that give them away that their words won't naturally mention or speak. Where is their attention centered the most? In your cleavages, your waist, hips etc. Paying attention to their words alone is dangerous for words will always retain their power of influence to lure, to cause a sensation. Words are weapons to make you lower your  defenses. Words offer the means to meaning and for those who listen, the enunciation of truth which could intently mean the opposite. Love and trust are more than words, they are perspectives, you don't throw yours around without inquiring from his perspective if really he meant every word he said. You have to aim to perceive from their perspectives for the realest things are not seen nor heard but human unconscious behaviors are predictive, men are seldom not aware of when they spell out this signs that shows what it is that they really want either your love or your body. Watch out for my next post for more practical and detailed signs.

* WATCH OUT FOR THIS SIGNS:
There are things you can test waters, not in the matters of love, don't gamble love when you can get it right. If you are not yet sold away by nice appearance, large reputation, desperation from your path and psalms that even Magret Thatcher could fall to;   you will see him looking at the odd spot on your body, you hear his husky and low voice etc. these signs are glaring. Root for them but Separate needs from wants, it plots against you.

DON'T PLOT AGAINST YOURSELF:
Your needs are your necessities and reality, while your wants are desires and fantasies. What people especially women lack in life  is not more reality but illusion, fantasy, play. We give it to YOU handy. Know what your fantasies are: is it a handsome guy, a wealthy man, a religious man, a very good bad guy. Separate the reality from the fantasies to get what is obtainable. Women are seldom delicate, your fantasies are predictable and men can forge them to look just like what you desired; I.e your prospective lover might use your fantasy to create an illusion you can never know until it is dawn on you the doom behind the games he had played leaving your heart broken. One of the illusions may be to turn you to be the chaser.

*HE CAN TURN YOU TO BE THE CHASER
One of the biggest mistakes the nice girl makes is to compete with other women, most especially fashion and physique wise. She may ask him about another woman in the room, “Is she pretty?” just to find out what turns him on. Or, she may be competing with whatever she thinks he fantasizes about: a model, a centerfold, a stripper, or a porn star. Then she goes dressing like Beyonce, Rihanna, Lady Gaga, Nicki Minaj, sexing like never before and stripping first before the sex without looking for the standards...... the real way of moderation which spells out the woman of dignity. Not creating a unique but a standard niche for yourself gives you away to him cheap, rather aim for the ideal.

*SEEK THE IDEAL:
Copy no one except the Most High  but always remember: the script you were given in life by your environment (family, peers and friends) are not the role you have to accept to play in your life drama. You can always live out a role of your own creation, a role that fits not your fantasy but a role of goodness, of Christlike, of gracefulness, of power. That is the standards, It have greater benefits. Your fantasies are like wishes, no matter how you craft it, its like building on the air, it can't hold you for long. You can't even build love around it, it will collapse.

*MEN ARE HUNTERS

They are motivated and really excited to chase that which is denied them, we tend to impress, tease and please the more that which we cannot possess in full. Your greatest power in love game is your ability to turn away, to make us come after you, delaying our satisfaction. A man values that which took him time and resources to get because we hunt down and move fast to another game. But by delaying our gratification you tame us and indirectly convince us that you are worth breeding.

* SHINE INWARDLY
An intelligent heart acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks knowledge said the wisest king that ever lived. Become spiritually and intellectually attractive and you never have to worry about any enigmas of men, because they are common to your explanation. It is already known to you that often the ideal is expressed in contradiction. No gimmicks will catch you unawares until you get caught up with the ideal man whose body, soul and spirit is exclusively yours. "Unlock your hidden powers"
Is one of those book to help you shine inward out