Imagine, when two people come together with similar beliefs based not on what they can gain from each other but on helping one another achieve their dreams, you will see there will be more initiative to get the relationship going. This two people would become partners more than they are just on a date. They would rather see canal knowledge of themselves before marriage as a distraction to the main focus.
~Michael Mbuko ~
A research was conducted between guys in 5 continents including Africa, and the guys were asked to choose between meeting the love of their life or having amazing sex for six months, 92 percent chose falling in love.
Which means we still believe in soul mates, and life partners than you think we don't. Then why are too many ladies being played?
No man can play you without your permission. He may not ask but your behavior gave him the suggestion. Not too many would correct your bad steps, especially when they see you leave loopholes that you are on a quest for money, Fame and comfit, then your heartbreak becomes a punishment for seeking the shortcut.
Most times your background is to be blamed for this, your dad wasn't rich and he need a rich inlaw to compliment for not being rich, your mother never married a rich man and is priming you to get a rich husband. You think you suffered too much and needs a rich man that will clean you up.
You maybe rich and needs a rich guy too. All your friends are marrying rich dudes and you need not slack or You've lived a fake life and needs a rich man to grace you. Life doesn't work the way we think. Life don't always offer you your needs and wants at a go. You negotiate out your needs and wants out of life with your thoughts and deeds. It gives you what you need then you get what you want out of it.
Don't get biased, Love is a necessity. Remember its either God or money, its either love or comfit but know this: love can bring comfit, but comfit don't always bring love.
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