So many boys are born but few turn out to become men, and out of these men, very few turn out to become husbands.
Schools employ such boys as teachers and they started defiling school girls the first day at school, including some of the female teachers. Universities harbour such boys as lecturers threatening girls with "fails," if they don't allow them carnal knowledge of them. They even keep cliques to perpetuate such evil and go scotfree. Churches keep such boys as pastors, they trap our little girls and women who willing come to aid with the house chores to go home defiled. Even the choir masters too. Some of these boys claim to be husbands to our sisters yet they seek secretly to defile their sister-inlaws.
Yet every talks on relationship on every ground is advicing the ladies. Who is addressing the cheats, the deception, the fornication, adultery, the cyber flirting, cyber-sexting in the boys and Male domineering attitude over the girls. Who is mentoring the little boy on the right way to go.
Everyone is telling the girls to smart up, wise up and guide up but no one to tell the boys to man up.
Why should every girl be entering a relationship terrified, scared of being plundered? why should girl die reading books on male maneuver to avoid being invaded in the guise of love. "Where there is fear, love is not made perfect." Said the bible.
Are we declining morally? where is our self-worth? ain't we able to impact on women positively without asking for a pound of flesh? Nowadays very minute guys can agree to help a lady without hidden motives. Must we see every lady that come our way as an opportunity to express our naughtiness, eroticism and lustfulness.
Why would the only thing still keeping you with that girl be her foolishness: she is scared of loosing you, of being found lonely, she chose to became so dumb to allow you inbetween her legs up till this time. We inject a lot of insecurities into women. So many of them are covering these insecurities on a nice, clean and expensive labels. There worth is based on those cloths. And when we eventually marry her, we are scared to let her be with our friends alone. We fear she might fall for him. Because We didn't nurture her, we only clothed her. We fell in love with her because of her alurred apparel and voluptuous body not because of the hidden person of the mind.
Live to nurture every gal that come your way and you can go to Amsterdam to find your wife faithfully waiting for you because you are such a faithful husband too and because she fears God.
I want to send my daughter to school and be sure the male lecturers won't plunder her and accuse her for failing when she refuse to grant their request. I want to see my sisters with guys solving assignments, debating politics and discussing Christ and save myself the headache of always checking on them. I want to give my cousin's number to my friend to wish her happy birthday without cunningly looking for a way to sleep with her.
I want to live my wife to enjoy the company of my friends without ever being so scared of luring her into a hotel room.
But for all these to be possible, the change have to start from me first. Then you and him.
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