I see a generation where everyone both family members, neighbours and friends to the family keep a watching eye over a girl child. Everyone stands in the watchtower on her matter beaming the spotlight on her every path. Mentoring every step she takes and preparing her for her man in marriage, yet the boys will still strategically sneak her to the dark to deflower her. Still his "husband material" never drops.
"All men are dogs, just a different pedigree" is what I hear from virtually all the ladies who on looking for true love have received a dozen horse whip-lashes. Maybe what we have today are males not men anymore because no one is grooming the boys to become a loving faithful husband who commits to his wife alone.
He is only groomed to be a man and that trenscends to physical strength and not inner strength of self control and righting the wrongs around him!!! He gets education to get wealthy to provide for his family and not moral and spiritual healthiness to remain faithfully to his wife
He is indirectly adviced to plunder and the woman bears the blame for being so loose and letting her wife material drop many yards even though she was deceived.
Yes, we come from a background where a girlchild is asked to keep the home clean, cook for the boy child and wash his clothes as the boy child sit in the sitting room to watch Rihanna TWERK on MTV, listen to Wizzy's erotic lyrics.
And when he sees a lady he looses his garment of self-control, but the girl child is always the one to blame for being so loose. No one recognises who was first to "loose their garment." The girl's wife material strips each time she sleeps with a man and each time the men sleeps their Husband material remains intact. What mystery.
The girl child must let the male child grow up before secretly pitching her tent with him as his babe doing what mom and dad is doing. When you didn't allow him maximize his single hood to cook for himself, do the laundry, scourge the pot, think for what to eat, cook them himself, communicate to himself and grow in love.....you make an irresponsible man who wont appreciate his wife when she renders those services in his home.
Being his babe from his teen age to adulthood and spending lots of the time in bed makes him irresponsible of appreciating sex with his wife..... Without God filling a man's moral and spiritual tummy. He will become a sex gluttony, not even his wife will satisfy him.....in fact he needs variety. ...please I enjoin us all to bend a boy child when he is flexible before he becomes adult and rusty and not easy to bend and as much put an eye on a girl child too. Even the bible didn't specify just a female child, it said "Train up a child the way he should go and when he is old, he won't depart from it......but the trainer must also know the way.!!!
God Help our Male Children and the Adult males too.... to grow up to become men.
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