10 RULES FOR EFFECTIVE STUDENTS

A pal of mine shared this to me so I decided to share it to you as well, because of my generosity. He said these are the strategies he implied that made him stood out in academics, handed him connection and fame even when he haven't started his major programme in school. It goes thus:

1. Nothing is free in life, its either you are paying one thing or the other, in school, when Your parents pay the school fees, you have to pay attention to enable you reap the value of the fees they paid.

2. Don't be stereotyped but mirror your lectures. Do what the lecturers tell you to do and don't do what they said you shouldn't do and they - - lecturers--will love you and fight for you in critical times. When you are talking to Profs, talk, pose and act like one. Same to lecturers and other great men you would  meet. He said if you don't, they will also rate me and see me as a kid. So don't rush while talking, don't shout, speak slowly and in a low tone to command attention and simply it works.

3 You don't have to accept the roles and rules your parents gave you from home, it will make you behave like any other students because their parents also gave them similar template. Carve your own part, keep right but don't do what other students are doing. If you have questions, be bold and ask your lecturers. also answer questions too.

4. The students will become jealous and many will dislike you but the lecturers will love you more. But be humble, proud but simple, and soon enough, those who despise you will be at peace with you.

5. Set a standard and follow it up. And everyone will respect you and pave way for you.

6. The most important as he said is that you should never reveal your identity; that is your family history. Put family issues aside and don't mention it to anyone. Otherwise people will measure you and rate you. Which will then limit your achievement.

7. He also said that the best and worst result is being made in the first year. You should always be conscious of that.

8. Information drive our time. Make friends from the highest grade, class and colleague, ask after each lecturers techniques of marking, psychology and association. Get them to give you basic information and past questions and It will get you ahead. Information is power, its no longer knowledge.

9. Help your colleagues, be that person they run to and look up to, be friendly,  put up a nice demeanor and be that person they are calling for in information, for help....tutor them for that is how you become a leader.

10. Never tell anyone your strategy, it will become conventional and useless. And you will became useless to them as well.

Michael is the author of a best selling book title "Unlock Your Hidden Powers: selling on Amazon.

THE SCIENCE OF FALLING IN LOVE STILL UNKNOWN TO MANY LADIES

1. When I hear ladies say no man is worth trusting, i won't blame them either, maybe they have not COME ACROSS good,nice and caring dude like me. Lol. Just joking!!! As a behaviourist, it took constant research to discover this science outlined below.

2. The point is, some men can be trusted but you can set yourself up for the wrong ones then the unscrupulous ones will persuade you to surrender your trust without your knowledge. There's a science men will use to make you surrender your heart to them, an art of falling in love is no longer a matter of magic but of psychology. With women, its all about emotions and connection.

3. We know that what  the ladies of our generation lack in their lives is not more reality but illusion, fantasy and drama. To some he is expected to be romantic, wealthy, sweet, spoilt and a good man wrapped up in one. To some a strong, cocky god fearing laity.

4. Men on perceiving this, we not fail to create a romantic figure out of a novel to suit your fantasy. Then another Romeo is just being born.  By seeming to be what you lack, they will fit your ideal.

5.We are aware that  low self-esteem repels, confidence and self-sufficiency attracts, so we approach with confidence, then connect with a nice demeanor, a shared experiences and history. With a friendly outlook we set you off balance to diffuse aggression  then start discussing emotional cramps, that will disarm you.

6. Dont forget, words will always retain their power, with some of it, you can be opened like a book, and your attitude toward yourself is discharge unconsciously and is being read by him in a subtle way. But in this case we will examine the effect of our words with what Sociologist call Gauchai's Reaction.

7. In that case, we will watch out if you are in sync by checking if you will unconsciously start mimicking our gestures, reciprocating our head nod and our hand gestures. If you do, then you are in love.
8. Then we step on to tell you how you've changed us and changed the way we see the world before a talisman of a  gift to show that you have always been on our mind. You believed.

NOTE

9. People will often reveal there intents in subtle ways: one is through their gestures, then  another is through a look into their eye to question their words, if the tone of their voice changes while you guess at them, he is lying. There are exceptions too.

10. The key to following the path of the Ideal Lover is the ability to observe. Ignore your targets' words and conscious behavior; focus on the tone of their voice, a blush here, a look there—those signs that betray what their words won't say. Often the ideal is expressed in contradiction.

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IMAGE CHECKING AND INNER SOUL OF A WOMAN

YOUR INNER SELF AND ITS SEARCH FOR LOVE

1. Your spirit holds a mirror up to others to see what your inside looks like. This mirror is the self image or avatar that people perceive of you through your behaviour and speeches.

2. Your values, your tastes, even your flaws flows out from your self image and reflect out of your unconscious behavior and speech, and are perceived by people as either courageous, charismatic and smart; or fearful, vulnerable, timid, desperate and weak.

3. We are most times unaware of how our self image looks like whether healthy or sick. When healthy it help us maneuver manipulations, that is when they are properly feed with good values. But work against us when sick, tired and worn, any man can trick you and break your heart.

4. Most times it is used against us depending on what we feed our self image with. We may feed it fat with junks of negative values, false beliefs and influences. A lady who thinks having sex with all the men will revenge a heartbreak is a victim. A lady who thinks all guys are the same is also.

5. Your self image attracts people your way if it is healthy and presentable and also chases people out if worn out.  Because even in real life no one likes a timid and unkempt child.

6. When we fall in love, it is often with someone who seems to fill a gap we feel within. The process is usually unconscious and depends on luck: we wait for the right person to cross our path, and when we fall for them we hope they return our love.

7. But the dread seducer looks beyond the face to see your self image and having perceived its desperate wants and needs, weakness and vulnerability will not leave such things to chance, not even your beauty can save you. They will plunder and manipulate you based on their perceptions of you and make head way for heartbreak.

8. You feed your self image with selflove, thorough discipline and study to be perceived brave and awesome; for poised figures do have lifelong affairs with their own image to appear confident and influential; so

9. Let your yearning be of self development, feed your inner hunger with good values based on truth in the Bible not another lustful relationship. No one ever sees what is behind the mirror. They only notice Your change in character and attitude.

10. Also develop your Spiritual Intelligence. This is the most superior of all intelligence. In getting information from the beyond, it is even more effective than NASA. It plays a role of an inner satellite to draw information from Infinite Intelligence and even translate the thought of men to you in no time avoiding heartbreak. Jesus is the answer.

Check out the book unlock your hidden powers for more information to develop a healthy self image.

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THE SEVEN NEWEST LOVE ANTICS EVERY YOUNG LADY SHOULD KNOW

today's world falling in love is a matter of psychology than it is magical, while venturing in the course for love, the ideal path a Lover will take is the route that is not clearly seen, she aim to know his intentions firsthand, caring less of his  words and conscious behavior because it could be deceptive. Remember history books are written by victors not heroines who die in battle field. This is the way to go:

*SHARPEN YOUR OBSERVATION ABILITIES
You must be of Keen observation before you become his next victim, love is a game of power, don't get loose by a witty approach or a friendly outlook, make him your target. Before men ignite love  in your heart, ignore your target's sugarcoated words but rather focus on their tone of voice, a blush here, a look there; root for those signs that give them away that their words won't naturally mention or speak. Where is their attention centered the most? In your cleavages, your waist, hips etc. Paying attention to their words alone is dangerous for words will always retain their power of influence to lure, to cause a sensation. Words are weapons to make you lower your  defenses. Words offer the means to meaning and for those who listen, the enunciation of truth which could intently mean the opposite. Love and trust are more than words, they are perspectives, you don't throw yours around without inquiring from his perspective if really he meant every word he said. You have to aim to perceive from their perspectives for the realest things are not seen nor heard but human unconscious behaviors are predictive, men are seldom not aware of when they spell out this signs that shows what it is that they really want either your love or your body. Watch out for my next post for more practical and detailed signs.

* WATCH OUT FOR THIS SIGNS:
There are things you can test waters, not in the matters of love, don't gamble love when you can get it right. If you are not yet sold away by nice appearance, large reputation, desperation from your path and psalms that even Magret Thatcher could fall to;   you will see him looking at the odd spot on your body, you hear his husky and low voice etc. these signs are glaring. Root for them but Separate needs from wants, it plots against you.

DON'T PLOT AGAINST YOURSELF:
Your needs are your necessities and reality, while your wants are desires and fantasies. What people especially women lack in life  is not more reality but illusion, fantasy, play. We give it to YOU handy. Know what your fantasies are: is it a handsome guy, a wealthy man, a religious man, a very good bad guy. Separate the reality from the fantasies to get what is obtainable. Women are seldom delicate, your fantasies are predictable and men can forge them to look just like what you desired; I.e your prospective lover might use your fantasy to create an illusion you can never know until it is dawn on you the doom behind the games he had played leaving your heart broken. One of the illusions may be to turn you to be the chaser.

*HE CAN TURN YOU TO BE THE CHASER
One of the biggest mistakes the nice girl makes is to compete with other women, most especially fashion and physique wise. She may ask him about another woman in the room, “Is she pretty?” just to find out what turns him on. Or, she may be competing with whatever she thinks he fantasizes about: a model, a centerfold, a stripper, or a porn star. Then she goes dressing like Beyonce, Rihanna, Lady Gaga, Nicki Minaj, sexing like never before and stripping first before the sex without looking for the standards...... the real way of moderation which spells out the woman of dignity. Not creating a unique but a standard niche for yourself gives you away to him cheap, rather aim for the ideal.

*SEEK THE IDEAL:
Copy no one except the Most High  but always remember: the script you were given in life by your environment (family, peers and friends) are not the role you have to accept to play in your life drama. You can always live out a role of your own creation, a role that fits not your fantasy but a role of goodness, of Christlike, of gracefulness, of power. That is the standards, It have greater benefits. Your fantasies are like wishes, no matter how you craft it, its like building on the air, it can't hold you for long. You can't even build love around it, it will collapse.

*MEN ARE HUNTERS

They are motivated and really excited to chase that which is denied them, we tend to impress, tease and please the more that which we cannot possess in full. Your greatest power in love game is your ability to turn away, to make us come after you, delaying our satisfaction. A man values that which took him time and resources to get because we hunt down and move fast to another game. But by delaying our gratification you tame us and indirectly convince us that you are worth breeding.

* SHINE INWARDLY
An intelligent heart acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks knowledge said the wisest king that ever lived. Become spiritually and intellectually attractive and you never have to worry about any enigmas of men, because they are common to your explanation. It is already known to you that often the ideal is expressed in contradiction. No gimmicks will catch you unawares until you get caught up with the ideal man whose body, soul and spirit is exclusively yours. "Unlock your hidden powers"
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7 INCREDIBLE MEN'S DATE GAMES EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW

I thank God for saving my soul, i would have been more dangerous than ever. This is an insider from a man who have been in the game cycles, now I have come to share with my most valued ladies how we played the game on you in the most advanced way but I have to warn: don't hate the player, hate the fact that they don't see the linesman. They don't follow fair play. Hating the player is a weakness we can always harness anytime. I don't share this kind of thing always, so take advantage of it now or never:

So, To every woman, attention is the stoplight, while men's eyes is the target,  many of you can do any thing to earn our focus, from your make ups to your  make overs is a sign that you just want to show off and attract a man. Take note, commanding the power to pull attention without knowing how to make out a rhythm we can dance to could be likened to a songstar singing and dancing in the darkness...... Men will take advantage of you. But my problem with you most women is that you have the skill to steal our attention from us but you lack the skill to court it. I will teach you how:

1. In every game house there is a cheat not too far away, love is a power game, there are chances that some guy you don't know have advanced a strategy to enter your space to win your ace. They have understood the complex wiring and wireless networks that connects from your mind to your head. They know how to alter it to reap you up. Trust not your emotions, rather lean on your spiritman. You need discernment. You need God.

2. You steal our attention with your beauty, physique and make-up, inturn we throw you off balance with our witty lines and we take what we like from you. We just need to connect with what matters more to you,  we get too emotional and watch you reciprocate and the rest is history. Be careful, his words can be sugarcoated but the intent is a mouldy yeast and not cake. There are energies everywhere vibrating, negative and positive. Trust your vibes...it could be telling something your head didn't pick.

3. we remain a calculative being, manipulative at times and rather too clever for our own good. You need to get into our head, perceive from our perspective. Through our behavior you can get clues because it is predictable... Don't let your needs and desperation blind you.

4. We men are creatures of profit, with deep intuition, analytical minds and a rather complex emotional life.  But just like any other human our brain is slow, it cannot multitask. Tempt us with anything you have, picture what draws our attention away e.g money, cleavages etc, you will get clues on what he wants.

5. We takes undue advantage when we see a good enough plunder before us, we sometimes plunder you with guys of like minds through set ups or however we do that alone. Not to fear, my friend once said that "countless choices define our fate, each moment repel in the river of time. You can change every tide by making right choices of not entering into just any relationship but the right one.

6. This is life. You won't be able to control the forces of nature, most especial the ones we orchestrate. Don't go on snapping selfies, work on various ways you can control your  thoughts, perceptions and actions. Guide Desperation away. You have 4 Aces: Master time and chance, space and emotions. Love is a power game, You need to play with both hands.

7. There are two types of ladies, the hammers and the nails, the hammers possess the power while the nail is being plundered. Its your choice to decide which to become. The hammer's are intelligent, they have a passion they can't give up for a man. They play to ace, they respect but don't lay down their powers. They can't play the role of his house help until he pays the Bride Price. But the nails are the pink lips but empty headed who go on to please a man until she trade her aces away.

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5 TOP SECRETS MEN DON'T WANT ME TO TELL YOU(LADIES)

When i was in there, i mean in the world, we use to call love a game of conquest. You know, Men as Political animals said Aristotle, always look for means of creating their own Paradise on earth, they will assume kings then seek to become emperors, on that verge, they will besiege your kingdom, conquer it and march along to another kingdom. They do this to satisfy their ego, they want to proud amongst other emperors about how many kingdoms they have conquered. Men are simply conquerors, that is the reason the first toy a boy child uses is a gun. If his parents can't afford one, he will make one himself. We are quite looking for a difficult kingdom to conquer, that one difficult kingdom will remain precious in our eye and is worth staying with.
In this war there is one thing more important than killing, it is surviving. I will show you ways to stay alive, so that you will return home to embrace your biggest fan. Listen good:

1. SCIENCE OF TRUST: You said no man is worth trusting its a lie, some men can be trusted but you set yourself up for the wrong ones then we the unscrupulous ones will persuade you to surrender your trust without your knowledge. There's a science to get people to trust you, with women, its all about emotions and connection, we approach with confidence, then connect with a nice demeanor, a shared experiences and history. With a friendly outlook we set you off balance to diffuse aggression  then start discussing emotional cramps, that will disarm you. Now you are open. We will examine the effect with what Sociologist call Gauchai's Reaction, in this we will watch out if you are in sync by checking if you will unconsciously start mimicking our gestures, reciprocating our head nod and our hand gestures. Then we step on to tell you how you've changed us and changed the way we see the world before a talisman of a  gift to show that you have always been on our mind. You believed. Then we move to a kill.

2. DENIALISM THEORY: Attention is a currency a beautiful lady like you demands wherever you go. We most times deny paying attention to her and we will create a space to win your ace. We will go straight among beautiful ladies greeting all except our target, in essence denying her the attention she seek. Firstly she will harbour our thought for long in her mind in essence getting our attention becomes a price she will be fighting for hence rendering her defences porous. There are exceptions, she may go seeking for revenge in some cases which is likely a weakness.

3. FOCUS THEFT: Your kingdom is only guided by one army and that is your focus.. once Your focus is being diverted, your heart remains unguarded. It becomes a target for his cupid arrow. First of all it begins with a battle of words, a battle for information, of scent, of resources. We gain what your wants are, then that will be used to get you focusing on the wrong direction as we gain access to your heart. So, before you fall in love. Make sure he is not yet another conqueror but a noble man worth falling for.

4. SUGGESTIONS: The knowledge of this was gotten from psychological concept. Human are psychological wired to unconsciously adopt that which surrounds them. That which they see and hear. For us its all about priming you, programming your subconscious by making suggestions of how we want you to act and what we expect of you. There are suggestion everywhere, on the flower vase, on the pictures on his wall. Even the music we play when you visit us.

5. BELIEF SYSTEM: Your belief system is your shield, it shields you away from your enemies. It becomes your home and a shelter when you sleep. Life is a constant struggle, like Rene Descartes the great Philosopher puts it doubt all your beliefs and exercise its strength  in the battlefield, get your values right and it will become the drone to garner information from your enemies in form of discernment and also become a wall strong enough not to be easily conquered, when you don't, it becomes only a blanket to keep you warm and easily penetrated.

TAKE CHARGE

We a all are fighters, remember heroes are fighters who decide to die trying knowing that the only reason they are still alive are to accomplish their life's purpose.
 
Mission impossible is a name of a movie Tom Cruz made possible. Your life is the only movie you can make possible. What's stopping you?

Is it the voice within dishing out  lies that reflect in your behavior.
Lies that you are not going to make it to the final round, lies that champions are only born and not made, lies that it is too late to try.

Is it the guilt beneath the shame, wrapping you up in chains. Is it the small and the big mistakes, or the man on the mirror that thinks he or she can never stand tall or is it the past that you can't undo.

Stop playing the blame game, when you can spend your last change on this one and see yourself a changed person sitting in the hall of fame...