THINK LIKE A BILLIONAIRE

I have been in business for a time now and here is my lessons. Your business  is a living entity that have needs and wants. Sometimes it is not money that it needs. Feeding it with more money because  that's what you think might grow it may not necessarily work.
It might be by being truthful to yourself and being faithful to your clients and staffs that grows it. ,

TRUTH
We find ways to cover truths coming like feedbacks from customers and staffs because we fear taking responsibility. Billionaires welcomes it and processes it as a catalyst for growth.

FAIRNESS
Sometimes we think the man that comes with a jeep and buys bulky things once a month is our biggest  customer,  then we treat others rashly. Billionaires treats everyone equally as important because  the man who buys less when  treated right can bring 10 more referrers who buys daily making huge turn-ups  for us.

MOTIVE
Your ''why'' of establishing your business  is the spirit  behind the business. We start business to make more money; Billionaires' motive to start a business is to solve human problems.

APPETITE
We find ways to reduce our appetite only when our salary decreases. Billionaires find a way to cut down their appetite when income increases.

THEIR NATION
We see our nation as the problem, Billionaires see those problems  as an opportunity to make a positive  mark. We see a wilderness, Billionaires  see a fruitful field

TASTE
Taste is different from appetite. We tilt from  needs to wants, from necessities to luxury. From constraints to indulgences. From goodness to bad habits. Billionaires improve their goals,  hubs and annexes to keep solving problems

CHANGE
We want more sells but we are not ready to change. Billionaires know that change is not easy but it is compulsory.

STAFFS
We don't want our staffs voice to be heard, what did they know to teach us? Billionaires listens to his clients even to the least in rank. He doesn't  know the angle the wind of change that will transform the company will come from.
LEARNING
They are teachable people, be ready to be broke and carry yourself well enough  like a billionaire.

#MindOfChrist

TOO MANY BOYS FEW MEN

So many boys are born but few turn out to become men, and out of these men, very few turn out to become husbands.

Schools employ such boys as teachers and they started defiling school girls the first day at school, including some of the female teachers. Universities harbour such boys as lecturers threatening girls with "fails," if they don't allow them carnal knowledge of them. They even keep cliques to perpetuate such evil and go scotfree. Churches keep such boys as pastors, they trap our little girls and women who willing come to aid with the house chores to go home defiled. Even the choir masters too. Some of these boys claim to be husbands to our sisters yet they seek secretly to defile their sister-inlaws.

Yet every talks on relationship on every ground is advicing the ladies. Who is addressing the cheats, the deception, the fornication, adultery,  the cyber flirting, cyber-sexting in the boys and Male domineering attitude over the girls.  Who is mentoring the little boy on the right way to go.

Everyone is telling the girls to smart up, wise up and guide up but no one to tell the boys to man up.

Why should every girl be entering a relationship terrified, scared of being plundered? why should girl die reading books on male maneuver to avoid being invaded in the guise of love. "Where there is fear, love is not made perfect." Said the bible.

Are we declining morally? where is our self-worth?   ain't we able to  impact on women positively without asking for a pound of flesh? Nowadays very minute guys can agree to help a lady without hidden motives. Must we see every lady that come our way as an opportunity to express our naughtiness, eroticism and lustfulness.

Why would the only thing still keeping you with that girl be her foolishness: she is scared of loosing you, of being found lonely, she chose to became so dumb to allow you inbetween her legs up till this time. We inject a lot of insecurities into women. So many of them are covering these insecurities on a nice, clean and expensive labels. There worth is based on those cloths. And when we eventually marry her, we are scared to let her be with our friends alone. We fear she might fall for him. Because We didn't nurture her, we only clothed her. We fell in love with her because of her alurred apparel and voluptuous body not because of the hidden person of the mind.

Live to nurture every gal that come your way and you can go to Amsterdam to find your wife faithfully waiting for you because you are such a faithful husband too and because she fears God.

I want to send my daughter to school and be sure the male lecturers won't plunder her and accuse her for failing when she refuse to grant their request.  I want to see my sisters with guys solving assignments, debating politics and discussing Christ and save myself the headache of always checking on them. I want to give my cousin's number to my friend to wish her happy birthday without cunningly looking for a way to sleep with her.

I want to live my wife to enjoy the company of my friends without ever being so scared of luring her into a hotel room.

But for all these to be possible, the change have to start from me first. Then you and him.

WHY MEN'S "HUSBAND MATERIAL" DON'T DROP A YARD?

I see a generation where everyone both family members, neighbours and friends to the family keep a watching eye over a girl child. Everyone stands in the watchtower on her matter beaming the spotlight on her every path.  Mentoring every step she takes and preparing her for her man in marriage, yet the boys will still strategically sneak  her to the dark to deflower her. Still his "husband material" never drops.

"All men are dogs, just a different pedigree" is what I hear from virtually all the ladies who on looking for true love have received a dozen horse whip-lashes. Maybe what we have today are males not men anymore because no one is grooming the boys to become a loving faithful husband who commits to his wife alone.

He is only groomed to be a man and that trenscends to physical strength and not inner strength of self control and righting the wrongs around him!!! He gets education to get wealthy to provide for his family and not moral and spiritual healthiness to remain faithfully to his wife

He is indirectly adviced to plunder and the woman bears the blame for being so loose and letting her wife material drop many yards even though she was deceived. 

Yes, we come from a background where a girlchild is asked to keep the home clean, cook for the boy child and wash his clothes as the boy child sit in the sitting room to watch Rihanna TWERK on MTV, listen to Wizzy's erotic lyrics.

And when he sees a lady he looses his garment of self-control, but the girl child is always the one to blame for being so loose. No one recognises who was  first to "loose their garment." The girl's wife material strips each time she sleeps with a man and each time the men sleeps their Husband material remains intact. What mystery.

The girl child must let the male child grow up before secretly pitching her tent with him as his babe doing what mom and dad is doing. When you didn't allow him maximize his single hood to  cook for himself, do the laundry, scourge the pot, think for what to eat, cook them himself, communicate to himself and grow in love.....you make an irresponsible man who wont appreciate his wife when she renders those services in his home.

Being his babe from his teen age to adulthood and spending lots of the time in bed makes him irresponsible of appreciating sex with his wife..... Without God filling a man's moral and spiritual tummy. He will become a sex gluttony, not even his wife will satisfy him.....in fact he needs variety. ...please I enjoin us all to bend a boy child when he is flexible before he becomes adult and rusty and not easy to bend and as much put an eye on a girl child too. Even the bible didn't specify just a female child, it said  "Train up a child the way he should go and when he is old, he won't depart from it......but the trainer must also know the way.!!!

God Help our Male Children and the Adult males too.... to grow up to become men.

LOVE OVER COMFORT

Imagine, when two people come together with similar beliefs based not on what they can gain from each other but on helping one another achieve their dreams, you will see there will be more initiative to get the relationship going. This two people would become partners more than they are just on a date. They would rather see canal knowledge of themselves before marriage as a distraction to the main focus.

~Michael Mbuko ~

A research was conducted between guys in 5 continents including Africa, and the guys were asked to choose between meeting the love of their life or having amazing sex for six months, 92 percent chose falling in love.

Which means we still believe in soul mates, and life partners than you think we don't. Then why are too many ladies being played?

No man can play you without your permission. He may not ask but your behavior gave him the suggestion. Not too many would correct your bad steps, especially when they see you leave loopholes that you are on a quest for money, Fame and comfit, then your heartbreak becomes a punishment for seeking the shortcut.

Most times your background is to be blamed for this, your dad wasn't rich and he need a rich inlaw to compliment for not being rich, your mother never married a rich man and is priming you to get a rich husband. You think you suffered too much and needs a rich man that will clean you up.

You maybe rich and needs a rich guy too. All your friends are marrying rich dudes and you need not slack or You've lived a fake life and needs a rich man to grace you. Life doesn't work the way we think. Life don't always offer you your needs and wants at a go. You negotiate out your needs and wants out of life with your thoughts and deeds.  It gives you what you need then you get what you want out of it.

Don't get biased, Love is a necessity. Remember its either God or money, its either love or comfit but know this: love can bring comfit, but comfit don't always bring love.

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6 SUCCESS TIPS FOR PROSPECTIVE LEGENDS

You can just be like the true seekers who is not waiting for luck or kneeling on the preacher's feet waiting for a miracle, they take actions and create the greatest chances to put their statue on the pedestal. You can dedicate yourself and find yourself a champion. We believe with concentration you can move moutains and Like Jesus you can walk the streets through hell with smile to God's glory. We know that the hottest furnace don't kill, they only give birth to the brightest gold, if only like Shadrach you realize no middle ground

* There is no middle ground:

Its either you are up or you are down,  it is either you are down to earth or you are feeling high, it is either you kick the pail or live, it is either you rise or you fall , either you stand tall or stand low, there is no middle ground. It is either you join them or stand out,  it is either you do it or leave it. Its either a yes or a no, take a stand and don't weaver. Your life is yours to keep and not others to control. Its either you you are in the relationship or out if it. Get a base, get some principle and you will stand on higher grounds. Yes, i said no middle ground but make sure you are standing on the hill cos most times every other grounds might be a trap or a sinking sand. Even when you make a mistake and fall into the dungeon

* Don't keep staying in the dungeon:

The dungeons, cages and prisons  are ghettos meant for main men, if you are born there, you can always become another Michael Scofield to plan a prison break; if there is any forces responsible it is yourself. Break the chains of self, lost yourself for the course of breaking out of the tavern, do it for yourself, do it for your people, do it for the Nation and for the world. Like Usian Bolt, You can beat the clock, with hardwork you can break the chains. With faith you can break rocks and crawl out of the caves of the ghetto. Don't wait for luck, You can be a hero, You can be a champion but you need to empty your vessel first

* Empty vessels, noise the loudest:

There are empty everything: empty words, empty barrels, empty heart and an empty head. People who appear empty noise the loudest, though there are still many who are full but of self, and there are nothing good in self. Before you can imbibe something good, you need to empty yourself and be refilled, but you need to

* Check what you are carrying:

Like Rene Descarte doubt all your believes, scale yourself, what are your values, the self weighs nothing, go ahead and check, are you still carrying yourself or are you carrying the spirit. The spirit is powerful, the spirit is love, the spirit is kindness, the spirit is understanding, the spirit is service, it is discernment, it was the spirit that made the  differences between Mother Theresa and Adolf Hitler. Let the spirit embrace you and always examine with intervals to ascertain what it is you are chasing.

* Are you on a rat race:

Everyone have what they are pursing, its either they are running away from pain or running to embrace pleasure, they are only on a rat race, supermen don't do either. They are chasing something worth more than themselves, they dont sit all night stirring at the stars, they go to dream and work out their dreams to become stars. Don't forget the mirror on the wall.

*The Mirror concept:

Everyone have a mirror where they reflect, adjust and readjust themselves, my mirror is my best friend, I reflect daily. People react to what they mirror of you. Most times People give an opposite reaction to what they perceive of you, when you desperately want a position, they would give it to someone running away from it, when you need a girl desperately, she will keep running to those who ain't even aware of their existence vice versa. Why is it so? The world believe that too much interest is as a result of an interior motives bottled up in the mind.  So swallow your interest, rather pay attention.

SOUL SNATCHERS' TECHNIQUES (EPISODE 3)

Ijeoma Afam a young gal in her late teens, medium height but fair in complexion, her spherical faces was squeezed with frowns as she lie on her bed full of thoughts, she needed help and its gat to be urgent, she needed to write JAMB, she is to brilliant not to see the four walls of high institution but who is to help her, her uncles were cruising in good life and wouldn't want to let anyone get to their level, maybe the worship they get will cease. This is just an ideal of an average African rich man mentality.

"Ije," her mother called as she walked into the room and noticed her face as tears roll from her Ari's down to her cheek, she moved closer, then let the accumulated air in her lungs off her nostrils, the rush could power a wind energy. She consoled her but non of them made sense to Ijeoma, she had heard them many times yet nothing changed, she will be 20  next month yet haven't yet attained her dreams but this time, Nneka, Ijeoma's mom could go any length to makeup it up to her daughter, she bolted off and walked miles to the church, and  the pastor who she was to meet just left, she wouldn't want to go home without good news she had to wait.

The pastor was finally here after several hours, she was glad. She was ushered into the house and she asked the pastor for a favour of some money so that she could help the daughter out. The pastor was way too kind and not just promised to help but promised to shelter her and keep her away from the wilds of young boys looking for hearts to devoured. She blamed the woman for not coming this long. She was happy and the next day Ijeoma appeared in the pastors place but this time, the pastors wife had returned from the long vacation she went with her kids.

The pastor was nice and his three kids was awesome and he had the best wife ever who was hardworking, Ijeoma craved for a marriage like this. She was bent studying and the encouragements she received from pastor was needful and the advice to flee from bad relationships and crave for boys was mindblowing, according to him, focus is the law of success but one day Ije was dressing the church with a young teacher of the church, he called her to help him carry the table on the altar so he could sweep beneath it and as  she walk up the altar only for the teacher to grab her wanting to defile her on the altar, she was shocked and never expected such from a teacher of God's word. It was a struggle and a fight just to free herself only to return home that night with thoughts of what's going wrong with the church lying on her bed, she  slept off, Angela the pastors wife didn't border to wake her to help her in the kitchen as  She knew she would have been exhausted.

Ije was fast asleep and she was noticing her skirt being dragged low, a sort of hand caressing her breast, she thought it was a dream until she woke up and noticed the person just sneaked away, she followed the step and saw no one. She didn't sleep again that night. The following die when the Angela has gone to the market, the pastor sent for her by her 6 year old daughter and she showed up for the pastor to tell her to sit on his laps. Ije began to cry and was really worried what on earth would make the pastor ask her to sit on his lap, she was sobbing seriously, as she resist, she persuaded with words but Ijeoma's conscience was judging her seriously. Out of respect she sat on his laps but now crying like seriously. The pastor who wanted to sleep with her had a rethink and let the innocent gal go.

* It is awful for the grace that wanted to safe us became the beast that wants to hurt us

* Many of them are on Facebook, dishing out biblical verses whereas there inbox is full of cyber sex vases.
* They come with very good and credible advises, but the helm of their sleeves is covered with axes unseen with a naked eye.

* They come as Shepherd but they are slaughterers, hiding under the guise of a cloak but they are revering wolves.

* They drag God's name to the mud, as they blind the conscience of every lady in the congregation, each not telling anyone.

SOUL SNATCHERS' TECHNIQUES

"The words of his mouth were smoother than butter, but war was in his heart: his words were softer than oil, yet were they drawn swords."

~King David in Psalms 55:21~

From my numerous years of study and research, I have found out that if there is one thing that plague sincere lovers, it is how to know a player, the cheat and the flirt. Most of them guise under some clean real dude with words smoother than butter and softer than oil yet with their swords they cut your pound of flesh, the real issue is not them but you, many of you become Merchants of Venice placing your love for sale, then so many Shylock were created out of the blues coming for your pound of flesh. You can play the blame game but the case is circularly causal and explained as follows:

A psychologist observed that teenagers given the opportunity, are as eager to prepare for marriage as they are to equip themselves for their career and life purpose. These eagerness is triggered when a teenager starts to feel some emotions he or she can't explain, when he or she starts having  series of crushes that prompted into a boy and girl relationship.

Having seen their mom and dad, uncle and aunty together, they also crave for such too. And getting to high school, college, in the church and in the vicinity to see every youth in a relationship, this becomes enough validation that intimacy with a boy or girl is right. But most times the relationship that is meant to be platonic become intimate at the wrong time, thence young people not matured to handle love simply abuse it in a sexual intimacy.
The abuse will result to the wrong belief that love is hurtful after two or more unsuccessful relationship, they then see love as something no one can get right. Such a belief is much worse than the belief that the world was flat propagated by the 17th century scientists.
The wrong belief system that love is hurtful is being adopted when people after two or more unsuccessful relationships had to conclude such, without learning the real lessons.

ACTION POINT

The real lesson is:
1. A man or a lady cannot love genuinely expect he or she is possessed with divine love. Agape, God's kind of love.

2. When God is love, People who don't believe in love, believe in manipulation. People need a moral barometer that regulates their behaviour. And that's how we see God in our lives. An ungodly person is wild like the hurricane, he will defile your temple.

3. You get possessed with divine love to the extent you enter into a love affair with your Creator firstly, who in turn eternally educate you on what love is, how love works, how to operate in it. And how to recognize it from afar. So that you are not weak, vulnerable, desperate and needy.

4. Everybody must learn how to singly wait, and realize that singleness is not thesame as loneliness, it is not the phase where you keep sexual mates, rather it is a phase where you fine turn your aptitude and attitude right and keep clean, good and nice platonic relationships.

5. When we fill our hunger for God with earthly pleasure of untimely relationships, our ability to place a distinct between lust and love and differentiate from a real man and a male  will be stripper away from us and most people forget that we also have the male dog, male wolf, male ape, male chicken. That's why most guys behave like male dogs.

6. Without filling our yearning for God, we won't be able to distinct between a cheat, a flirt, a player and  a real man  because of the veil of vanity clouding our understanding. And only God can uncover you.

7. I learnt from Tammie that we cannot become what God wants us to be without knowing His plan. Investing in the knowledge of God, its free yet rewards bountifully.

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